It can be easy to be overwhelmed with the grief and not be able to see out of the pain but it is important to find an outlet that will allow you to direct this energy.  The important thing is to find what works best for you and it is okay to try a variety of methods from reading, journaling, gardening, and finding ways to honor your little one.   Below are different tools and sites that can provide additional support and help. 

Suggested Websites

• On Coming Alive - where those share stories from rising from ashes and coming alive. There is also a grief journal that has been created by them to help guide you through horrible time. 

• Still Standing Magazine - mission is to help you embrace life for everything that it is after experiencing the loss of a child or infertility. This site provides stories and resources.

• Still Mothers - sister site of Still Standing that focuses on mothers that have no living children.  Provides stories of mothers, support services, and resource tools.

• Walking with Elliot - created by Lori Davis who lost her daughter Elliot and includes the story of Elliot, blog posts, and music

• Glow in the Woods - for babylost mothers and fathers.  A wide variety of contributors providing their own experiences through losing their babies. 

• Hannah's Heart and Love -  501(c) non-profit.  A faith based organization providing resources, support, and items to those experiencing the loss of a baby through miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, stillbirth, and infant death at any gestational age up to one year of age.  

• Emily Long - Owner/Author/Life Archaeologist - also writes for Still Mothers and Still Standing Magazine.  Has suffered significant loss in her life and now helps those through their losses.  

Suggested Devotionals and Journals

• Grieving the Child I Never Knew: A Devotional for Comfort in the Loss of your Unborn or Newly Born Child by Kathe Wunneberg

• Baby Memory Journal: In loving memory of your angel baby by Laura Otwell and Rylee's Hope

• Anchored: A Bible Study for Miscarriage, Stillbirth, & Infant Loss by Erin Cushman

• I'll Hold You in Heaven by Jack Hayford 

• Jesus Today: Experience Hope through His Presence by Sarah Young

Suggested Books

• I Carried an Angel by Staci Luker

• Invisible Mothers: When Love Doesn't Die by Emily Long

• Hope for Today, Promises for Tomorrow: Finding Light Beyond the Shadow of Miscarriage or Infant Loss by Teske Drake

• I will Carry You:  The Sacred Dance of Grief and Joy by Angie Smith

• How to Survive the Loss of a Child: Filling the Emptiness and Rebuilding Your Life

• Still:  A Collection of Honest Artwork and Writings from the Heart of a Grieving Mother by Stephanie Paige Cole

• A guide for Fathers: When a Baby Dies by Tim Nelson

• Empty Cradle: Surviving the Death of Your Baby by Deborah Davis

• Healing a Grandparent's Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas After Your Grandchild Dies by Alan D. Wolfelt

• From Father to Father: Letters from Loss Dad to Loss Dad by Emily Long

• Grieving Grandparents by Lori Leininger and Sherokee IIse

   

Other Resources

• Angel Baby Pics - donates photo retouching resources to parents and families of a stillborn or newborn that does not make it home with you.  Due to medical equipment, developmental circumstances, or size photos can at times be difficult to look at.  

• Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep - providing the gift of remembrance photography for parents suffering the loss of a baby. There are also many other resources they have pulled together on their site for those that have experienced infant loss.  

• Gone but Not Forgotten -  Facebook page for those with pregnancy and infant loss.

• Invisible Mothers - Facebook page for mothers that have lost their children and have no other living children.

• Grieving Grandparents - Facebook page for grandparents that have lost their grandchild.

• Footprints on our Hearts - Facebook page and community of those that have suffered infant loss. Also, created a closed Facebook page called Footprints on our Hearts pregnancy and infant loss support group. 

• Molly Bears - create weighted teddy bears for families coping with any form of infant loss.  The bears are created to be the same weight as your baby. 

• Madison's Closet - to provide comfort and clothe moms who have lost babies by providing complimentary donated clothing to help them reclaim their self confidence.